Death at my door (D.A.M.D) Part 7 Looking ahead after a loss…stay strong!


Looking ahead can be impossible when you loose someone you love. I welcome you to unite your heart with mine today.
We lose the ones we love in different ways. Some fall out of love with us, some abandon us and some unfortunately…die.
Of all the losses, death stings the hardest because with death comes a finality.

In death lies the impossibly of a reunion with the loved one at least not in this world.
However, in death lies freedom. Freedom from all the limitations that life can bring. Limitations of suffering, poverty, distance , time and even … sickness.


Death can conjur sad memories… only if you let it.


We all experience our thoughts. If you think about something hard enough, you will feel it soon enough. When we lose someone we love, let us be comforted by the life we once shared with them. Let us experience the thoughts about the good times, the happy times, the laughter, the gains, the milestones. This is an important gift from them to us.The privilege of sharing in their joys and sufferings can not be taken away by death.


Therefore no matter how death chooses to come, let us experience those thoughts. Let us realise that death is the ultimate end to the journey of all life. There are no timescales. When it’s time, it’s time. Sometimes it feels too short in our eyes but it is long enough for the deceased.

“Fulfilment is not found in the number of days lived. It is found in the unquenchable joy that fills each day. Life may be short but the joy that fills each moment makes it perfect!”…

Let us allow those feelings take their roots in our heart. The more you think it, the more you believe it.
Let us forget the if’s, why’s and but’s that bring tears and focus on the gratitude of being part of the story of what was once the life of the one that once shared our lives.


I love you all very dearly and I thank you for supporting us through this most difficult time.
So I ask you “Is there any one you have lost to distance, heartbreak or quarrel?” You have the chance today to make your peace with them and be part of their story again. Don’t leave it till too late you never know what lies around the corner. Make that call you if have the time today!

 

Thank you for reading.

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