It’s two years now…
How time flies. I just received a card in the post from Great Ormond street hospital and it was too special to be quiet about.
You see, for those in my boat, they know how it feels. Everyone forgets. No that’s harsh. Everyone becomes silent… they don’t talk about him anymore. Well, it’s not surprising since he no longer exists.
Well, I felt elated today by the card though. Sadly when I tried to call back to send my heartfelt thanks, there was no specific person to take the compliment.
Them: My name is XYZ, you are through to the bereavement service
Me: Oh thanks, I just received a card and I want to speak with the person in charge.
Them: Erm, erm…. there is no one here in the office, will you leave a message so that I can get someone to call you back
Then I went blank. Leave a message? what do I say? Please call me back so that I can say Thank you to you.
Them: Hello, are you there?
Them: So what is it regarding? She rephrased the question. This one seemed easier
me: It is regarding my son Otito…my late son.
Them: Oh, do you need support?
Oh I never knew that they could give support!
Me: No (Now I sounded lame. Why was I calling?) I just want to speak with the person in charge.
Them: Ok, so what is it regarding
Me: Thank you
Them: You are welcome
Me: No, it’s regarding Thank you. I want to say thank you. I received a card just now and I thought it was very thoughtful. Since they are not around…. if only I had an email for you guys, I would have sent a letter, it would have been more profound.
Them: Oh, it was sent by our office
Me: Who sent it
Them: We did.
I wanted to ask the question: “who is we”, I was still thinking…
Them: I am glad you liked it. Is there anything else I can help you with
Me: In shock because I was still gathering my thoughts. So I simply said…No
Them: Alright then, bye, bye.
She hung up….
It was in that moment that it dawned on me that no one sent me the card. It was probably a computer.
My hubby was in the room and he asked me : “so what did they say?”. Now I wished I did not tell him I was making the call because I did not want to break his heart.
Me: They said they sent it from that office.
Hubby: What office
Me: The one I just called.
I was entering limbo again (I normally enter a certain numbness that leads to me staring when I am troubled. I call this my limbo phase). I was still in shock. When I received that card, It took me to cloud 9. How compassionate, how thoughtful and kind of them. I should not have tried to call to say thank you. After all, did I do that last year? Mba …No! I was not happy that no one seemed to send the card. First she said they were not around, next she said “we” sent the card.
But anyway even if “we” sent me a card, it was better than nothing after all all those I knew had forgotten.
So cheers to “WE” at Great Ormond Street Hospital, you rock. You guys always loved my boy. I appreciate you all. In future, I would not call to say thank you though. Leave me in the bubble of love, compassion and thoughtfulness that your cards put me in when I receive them. I do not want to be upset.
Thank you all for listening to me as always.
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